Carrying the Baton of Hope: Jo’s Story of Remembrance and Resilience

This year, the Baton of Hope returns to Derbyshire, with several proud carriers helping to shine a light on suicide prevention and men’s mental health. Among them is Jo, Mentell’s Community Manager, for whom the baton holds a deeply personal meaning. As a mum bereaved by suicide, Jo describes the honour as both remembrance and responsibility, walking for those we’ve lost, sparking vital conversations, and showing men everywhere that it’s ok to reach out.

We sat down with Jo to hear her reflections on what this moment means, how it connects with Mentell’s mission, and the message of hope she wants to share with our community.

What was your first thought when you found out you’d be carrying the Baton of Hope this year?

When I found out I would be carrying the Baton of Hope, my first feeling was a mix of pride & emotion. As a mum bereaved by suicide, it means so much to carry this symbol of hope for others. I thought of my own loved one & how their memory continues to guide my work. It feels like an honour, but also a responsibility, to walk for all those lost to suicide.

How does this experience connect with the work you do at Mentell day-to-day?

Carrying the Baton of Hope connects deeply with my work at Mentell, where we support men by giving them a safe space to talk. Both are about breaking the silence, reducing stigma and reminding people that it's ok to reach out. It’s all part of the same mission-to prevent more families from experiencing the pain of suicide.

What impact do you hope the Baton of Hope will have on men who see or hear about it?

I hope the Baton of Hope shows men that they are not alone & that it's ok to speak out about how they are feeling. Seeing this movement might encourage someone to ask for help. If the Baton of Hope can spark one conversation that saves a life, it will have made a difference.

In your role as Community Manager, what are you noticing men need most right now in terms of support?

This, I feel, is a really powerful question & one that I feel is being echoed across the UK right now. I think men feel they need safe, non-judgmental spaces to talk, free from advice. Clear & easy signposting for support. Workplace MH support & a shift in societal expectations.

What would you say to someone who’s on the fence about stepping into one of our groups for the first time?

You don't have to find the right words, the right mood or even the right reason to attend Mentell. Just the courage to take the first step. Then Mentell can walk alongside you.

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